If you don’t love being single, there is a big chance you will compromise on your needs and desires when choosing a mate. You could end up in a relationship that is toxic and harmful (once the honeymoon period has elapsed) then find yourself in the painful position of having to end yet another romantic connection. While this isn’t the greatest disaster in the world, if you’d like to finally have a meaningful connection in your life, with a person who has all the traits you’ve wished for in a partner, you would ideally find a solid position first. You would resolve to find deep satisfaction with your life, as it is, right now.

You start questioning; ‘What’s going on? Is there some kind of curse against me? Do I not deserve ease? Why can’t things go smoothly?’ And you notice thoughts like, ‘Typical! Of course it would start raining the moment I hang my clothes on the line!’ No. It’s not typical and no, the universe did not place a vendetta against you and frankly, Murphy manifested his own law. How do I know this? A dear little Wattle Bird showed me.

You wake in the still of night, swept into a torrent of thought — past regrets, future fears, looping endlessly. But peace is not far. By gently returning your attention to the breath, the body and the present moment, you begin to quiet the storm. You know instinctively, calming your mind leads the way to peace — and here is where you’ll find out how.

The world is noisy and chaotic. Our modern lives are filled with potentially problematic circumstances at every turn. There are constant distractions from this quiet stillness that you are. Life will try and tempt you into wrestling with its many stressful situations that cause you to become tightly wound into a knotted ball of tension. It is only when you unwind, let go of tension, release the racing thoughts and return to the stillness of this moment, you can reconnect with who you are.

This is what it means to awaken spiritually; you reconnect with who you really are.

The transition of you is not a bad thing, nor is it the end. There is no end. On some level you already know this. You have known this since you were a child when you were unable to imagine not existing. You sense it in your still moments, in presence, ‘in the zone’ and in the flow state of ease and joy.

Your inner alignment and harmony within, indicate you are on the right path with your thinking. The world will feel like a blissful romance to you and you will no longer feel a desperate need to have them in your life. When you attract a person out of this state; of deep connectedness with the oneness of the universe, you will attract a person who perfectly mirrors the joy that you are and all the desires in your heart. In this state of oneness, that which is meant for you must come to you.

We are not yet comfortable with recognising childlike playfulness and joy as demonstrating spiritual mastery. Sure, there are times when it is unwise to let your joy flow into unbridled action but this is about exercising wisdom simultaneously. We can still let awareness of joy flow into our experience at all times. This can and will change as you give yourself permission to be joyful and stand firm in joy.

When you heal, your inner state changes and so does your world. You bring joy to those whom you meet. You no longer spew toxic energy out into the world. You become deeply satisfied and no longer have the urge to perpetually create and consume, in order to eradicate a deep sense of disconnect and emptiness. As you heal, as you move deeply into a state of content, you anchor the energy vibration of consciousness on the earth plane for others to attune to.

That pain initially showed up for a good reason. It wants to be acknowledged but it isn’t who you are. The pain is a side-effect of the really challenging things that have happened to you when you were unable to debrief those events in any helpful way. So, we can peel back the layers and begin to heal. I am here to help you be aware of that which does not serve you. We can shed light on the unhelpful past that is acting through you. As you observe that which is not you, you can step into who you really are, and begin shedding those old patterns. It’s true, this work isn’t easy for those of you with a seemingly insurmountable burden of past pain but I assure you, it is the most rewarding journey a person could ever embark upon. Oh, and as for who you are; ‘You are worthy; you are good enough and you do not have to do anything to prove your worth. You are perfect as you are. You are adored beyond measure.’