According to these films, you meet your other half and you just know right away you’re destined to be together and live happily ever after. The movies suggest you need to overcome a few hilarious and heart-wrenching hurdles first but then, from this point forward, you blissfully drift into a relationship haze, as all the world’s problems disappear. ‘Yes! That is the thing I need! A romantic relationship will solve all my problems and complete me.’ Or so I thought. I was soon to have my heart broken and become disillusioned. But alas, all was not lost. In this blog, I am here to reassure you that fairy tales really do exist. They just need to be approached with the kind of pragmatic self-awareness and astute wisdom that make for a really boring rom-com.

We are not yet comfortable with recognising childlike playfulness and joy as demonstrating spiritual mastery. Sure, there are times when it is unwise to let your joy flow into unbridled action but this is about exercising wisdom simultaneously. We can still let awareness of joy flow into our experience at all times. This can and will change as you give yourself permission to be joyful and stand firm in joy.

When you heal, your inner state changes and so does your world. You bring joy to those whom you meet. You no longer spew toxic energy out into the world. You become deeply satisfied and no longer have the urge to perpetually create and consume, in order to eradicate a deep sense of disconnect and emptiness. As you heal, as you move deeply into a state of content, you anchor the energy vibration of consciousness on the earth plane for others to attune to.

That pain initially showed up for a good reason. It wants to be acknowledged but it isn’t who you are. The pain is a side-effect of the really challenging things that have happened to you when you were unable to debrief those events in any helpful way. So, we can peel back the layers and begin to heal. I am here to help you be aware of that which does not serve you. We can shed light on the unhelpful past that is acting through you. As you observe that which is not you, you can step into who you really are, and begin shedding those old patterns. It’s true, this work isn’t easy for those of you with a seemingly insurmountable burden of past pain but I assure you, it is the most rewarding journey a person could ever embark upon. Oh, and as for who you are; ‘You are worthy; you are good enough and you do not have to do anything to prove your worth. You are perfect as you are. You are adored beyond measure.’